Today marks 23,741 days on this earth for me… That’s a lot of days… A lot of life experiences… Lots of first… New life… Happy times… Sad times… Death… It’s 65 trips around the sun And I look forward to seeing what’s left to experience out there… We all have ups and downs but it’s…

From September 16, 1995 to September 16, 2025 there are 10,958 days… we made it to 10,527 days I would not trade one single day hour minute second love is fluid as is grief love will flow through the cracks of your heart that grief left in it’s wake our love this love will live…

My mother, aka Miss Iris, aka mama, aka grandma, aka Aunt Iris…turned 90 on the 14th of August so what’s a good daughter to do??? I threw her a birthday party…with friends and family and so much fun! Karen and her sister Sara did a great job of setting up the VFW…along with the help…

Today… 7/12/2025 12 365 8760 Those numbers separately don’t really mean anything…but 12 months, 365 days, 8760 hours… that’s how long it’s been since I’ve heard his voice got one last kiss one last hug the goodbye was one sided because he was gone the tears still flow…some with memories of the 29 years we…

Another first…A plane ride…Solo…No hand to hold…I miss holding his hand… rr

Today… April 1st we would have celebrated Andrew’s 60th birthday. While his body is no longer with us…I decided to celebrate him… his soul his spirit his love With a sprinkle of ashes, transported in one of his favorite shot glasses, in to the Potomac River at Colonial Beach… We talked Well I talked…he listened…

I miss the chats about stupid stuff I miss the comments while watching tv about the newscasters suit I miss the mundane the every day stuff that the only people that care about it are the ones in the middle of it the every day chatter these are just a very small amount of the…

I saw this quote in a book I was reading… We can’t control a lot that is happening in our lives but we can adjust how we handle it Just like the quote, we can’t control the wind but we can adjust our sails So as I go in to another stage of this new…

Grief is different for me and for you When someone passes away their loss touches each person differently There is the loss of a spouse sibling family friend each of those people experience grief in their own way and move through that grief differently no one’s grief is the same we all feel the loss…